If you're the one who's always taking pictures of your family, you may likely be absent from a lot of photos. That's the case for me, anyway. Sometimes I wish I'd have more pictures of me with my family, but then when someone else grabs the camera - I rarely feel "camera ready."
Here's an example:
I played around a bit and got this....
(These are my first attempts and they're a little sloppy. I'm getting better with practice.)
And I will say that I don't (and won't) "fix" all my pictures like that. I think it's important to look real in our photos. Just every now and then, a little enhancement can make an unusable photo - usable.
* I almost never re-touch Gianna. There were a couple of times when she had a scratch on her face that I airburshed it on a few photos. Early on a amped up the blue in her eyes - which was a beautiful blue - but it wasn't Gianna Blue. I don't want her to ever think that her mom doesn't think she's not good enough just the way she is.